I am so very sorry for your loss. Please find comfort in God's sure promise of a resurrection as set forth in the Bible. (Acts 24:15; John 5:28,29) Those who are raised to life will have the prospect of never again being subject to misery, sickness, or death. (Revelation 21:4) I hope that reflecting on these thoughts will give you some relief during this difficult time.
Shirley will be missed. Keep your memories of her close to your heart. I am glad she will no longer feel pain or suffering, her body is healed. My deepest condolences to my Uncle Doyle and cousins.